What do you have to offer? What do you bring to the table? Do you
bring out the best in the people you connect with? Do you bring relief or are
you that person who sucks the life out of a room? You may be gorgeous or generally
likeable but after a while people will evaluate their relationships with you.
They will ask themselves if they have become a better person by being around
you. Typically, when vegetables are grown in a garden, weeds start growing as
well. The weeds compete with the vegetables for the nutrients in the soil. If
the weeds are not removed, they eventually affect the growth and quality of the
vegetables. If people see you as a weed in their lives, it is just a matter of
time before they get rid of you. People who act like weeds contribute nothing
to relationships. They just keep taking; as a result they become a nuisance. If
people see you as a nutrient, they will want you in their lives because you make
their world a better place. So look out for ways you can be a nutrient to the
people in your sphere of influence.
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